夏雪宜
夏雪宜
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Many guys suffer before they succeed. They think that once they become successful and wealthy, everything will be fine... At that time, what kind of girl could they not find? Young, beautiful, and easy to choose from?
Indeed! But only when he really becomes successful does he suddenly realize that finding young and beautiful girls is not difficult at all—there are plenty to choose from. However, finding young, beautiful girls who come from happy families, have proper values, a stable social circle, and are willing to accept their fate and fall for you at a young age—can you, an older man, really handle that? It's as hard as climbing to the sky!
It almost doesn't exist.
Reaching middle age, I suddenly understood a truth: how much money a person can earn might be predestined. The amount of fortune one has in life seems to be predetermined, not something that can be controlled by willpower alone.
Some money is meant to be yours, and you can't avoid it. Some money, however, is ultimately not yours; maybe today it's in your left pocket, but tomorrow or the day after, it leaves in another form, given to others. Sometimes, when you're busy making money, you might actually be making money for others. For example, scammers, hospitals, or spendthrift children...
How long a person lives has little to do with exercise; how much money a person earns is not entirely proportional to effort. Those who get into top universities like Tsinghua or Peking University are never just trained; they are naturally gifted.
So, go with the flow, don't be too stubborn, and don't be too calculative. What should come will come, what should go will go, and that's enough. Less forcing, more ease—perhaps that is the greatest clarity.
When a person reaches middle to late age, many marriages gradually lose their fiery passion. There is no warmth in bed, no idle talks beneath the covers, no intimate embraces, and no gentle kisses. There is no longer arguing over right or wrong, no questioning of whereabouts, no disturbing each other, just peaceful coexistence.
Two people who once shared everything slowly become strangers living under the same roof, separated in one room, each sleeping alone, like two monks in a temple, each guarding their own side—quiet and cold.
This is probably the norm for marriages in middle to late age nowadays. The passion fades, the sharp edges are smoothed out, the dramatic highs and lows disappear, leaving only a quiet, steady flow.
It’s not that love is gone; it’s that over time, love and hate both fade. They accept the ordinary, tolerate the distance, and turn the lively romance into a stable life together.
No fighting, no shouting, no fussing, no longing, no resentment—this is both a regret and a fulfillment, and above all, the gentlest resting place for marriages in middle to late age.





